Author Archives: Becki

About Becki

I'm Becki, I'm 39, and I'm crazy (but also fucking awesome). :) You can follow me on Twitter @Koppur (pronounced Copper, like the color of my hair - Redheads kick ass!) or just adore me here.


Fadó, fadó (Long ago), I had amazing self-confidence.  Even when I was at my heaviest weight of over 350 pounds, I rocked my curves and strutted everywhere I went, drawing appreciative looks from men (and some women).  I know my … Continue reading

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Wow, time flies…

So, it’s been over 2 years since I posted.  In all honesty, I kind of forgot this blog even existed.  But I’m happy I found it, because I want to start writing again.  Quick catch up over the last 2 … Continue reading

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Six months later, I’m back

So I disappeared for a while.  Things with The Knight started going amazing and we ended up in a great relationship. That’s over now. So, I’m back. Yes, I’m like that annoying friend that only wants you when I don’t … Continue reading

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Interview #1

I love answering questions in interview form like I’m someone other people are fascinated with (someday I’ll be famous. I’m not sure for what yet – it may just before my own personal brand of craziness, but I’ll take what … Continue reading

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Oprah’s Reply

Received this reply from O Magazine today: Thank you for taking the time to write us and sharing your thoughts on the Gratitude Meter piece. We deeply apologize if this issue offends you and we genuinely take every reader’s opinion … Continue reading

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Dear Oprah

I’m usually very happy with everything in each month’s O magazine, but this month (July 2014) there’s something that is really bothering me. In your Gratitude Meter, you list the the movie When I Walk, which is a documentary about … Continue reading

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Friendship: To Keep or Not To keep

Yesterday on my Facebook, myself and three different friends of mine (who don’t know each other and are not connected with each other in any way other than the fact that they know me) posted a status or article about … Continue reading

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I hit a low point about a week and a half ago and I’m having trouble pulling myself out of it. There’s a lot floating in my head.  Most of it is sadness, loneliness, and what I’m sure most people … Continue reading

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Amazing how you can go from flying high in one minute to crashing low in the next, all thanks to the actions of another person. I’m not going to go into details; frankly it’s not something I want to think … Continue reading

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Finally, Date Night with The Knight

I’m ridiculously excited about tonight.  Actually, that’s not true.  I’m riCOCKulously excited about tonight!!! For the past year I’ve been “friends” with a guy I call The Knight.  We dated last summer, things feel apart, and we didn’t talk for … Continue reading

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